Of Gifts and then more Gifts

When you go visiting a new born baby, ensure to check up whether the baby has an elder sister or brother and do not forget to buy a gift for the older child. The older child is very sensitive and will already be upset that he or she is not the centre of attention any more. A thoughtful gift (even a chocolate box will do) to this child is quite appropriate. It is alright even if you do not buy any gift for the new born, as the baby is not in a position to understand and appreciate gifts. And the parents won't mind in the least.

In the same situation, it will be a nice gesture if you can buy a small gift for the mother of the baby. Here is someone who has gone through 10 months of pregnancy and the travails of a childbirth. She definitely deserves appreciation.

When you go to the Airport or Railway station to see off someone, buy a couple of magazines for him/her to read. A bottle of water will also be quite welcome.

Contrary to what many think, fruits may not be the right choice when you visit a sick person. Most of the doctors insist on a strict diet and hence your gift of a basket of fruits may be of no use. Boredome is the salient feature in any hospital stay. Couple of nice audio cassettes/ CD or a not too heavy book or again magazines will do.

Should you be giving chocolates to the children of the house when you go visiting a friend or relative? Most parents complain about children over indulging in chocolates and may frown on them being provided with a box of candy. A box of cookies, biscuits or some good educational toy may be thought of.

Whatever be the occasion, the gift should be chosen carefully keeping the person to whom it is given in mind, his/her likes and dislikes. Also, the gift should have your personal touch and should refect your unique personality. A gift is and has to be a very personal thing. Please do not commodotize it.